Most people read 1 John 4:18 as a comfort verse. And it is. But there is a depth in it that goes far beyond comfort. There is no fear in love, but full-grown, complete, perfect love turns fear out of doors and expels every trace of terror. The word translated as perfect here comes from the Greek word teleios, which literally means aimed at a definite goal. Perfect love is love that has a purpose and a direction. And that kind of love has no room for fear in it.

Fear Is an Alarm, Not a Verdict

The Greek word for fear in this passage is phobos, which means alarm or fright. Think about how a home alarm works. It sounds when the bond between the door and the frame has been broken, when access points have been compromised. In the same way, fear in a person’s life is an indicator that the bond between that person and God has been weakened. It is not a verdict on your future. It is an alarm telling you something needs to be restored. Love, when it is properly targeted, removes the conditions that trigger the alarm. Proverbs 29:25 tells us that the fear of man brings a snare. It puts a cage around you. But whoever trusts in the Lord is safe and set on high. Trust dissolves the fear. Love builds the trust.

Love That Has No Conditions Cannot Fail

Song of Solomon 8:7 says that many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it. That is not a sentimental statement. It is a theological one. This love does not respond to opposing conditions. It cannot be shut down by rejection, disappointment, or difficulty because its source is not in the circumstances. It originates from eternity, and eternity is not restricted by time or condition. When we clothe ourselves in the love of God, we become undefeatable under all conditions. God Himself can love absolutely because He operates from a position of complete security. Nothing can hurt Him. No one threatens Him. He is fully, totally love. As believers made in His image, we are called to walk in that same consciousness. The only thing that truly hinders a person from walking in love is the belief that someone has the power to hurt them. Remove that belief, and love flows freely.

Walk in the Higher Dimension

As you grow in love, you become increasingly unresponsive to the things that oppose it. What once would have shaken you begins to lose its grip. Fear alarms subside because the bond between you and God is strong. Perfect love is not passive. It is purposeful, directed, and powerful. Let it grow to full maturity in you, and watch fear lose its voice entirely.

-Terrence Burton