DON’T LOOK BACK: THE STRONGHOLD OF THE PAST

Remember Lot’s wife.

Luke 7:32

Your memory can be a blessing to you, but unfortunately, it may very well be a curse. Jesus made this statement above in reference to the miraculous deliverance executed to free Lot and his family from the wrath that befell Sodom and Gomorrah.

The Bible does not specify how long Lot and his family lived in Sodom. Nonetheless, they lived there long enough for Sodom to exert its influence on Lot’s wife. She was unable to refrain from looking back at the judgment as it befell the region.

Some details are excluded from the Bible regarding their exit, but I’m sure they heard the death cries of friends they’d acquired, people they did business with, and neighbors they’d left behind. The thought of what these people were suffering had to be painful. These thoughts had so gripped Lot’s wife’s mind that they outweighed the instruction to not look back.

But his wife looked back behind him, and she became a pillar of salt.

Gen. 19:26

What an example of looking in the wrong direction! God had given her and her family a new life…a new beginning. However, instead of this righteous woman focusing on her new life, she looked back at the one God was delivering her from and paid for it with her life.

What you give your attention to matters! Do not allow the pull of your past to so grip your mind that you look in the direction that it is calling you to focus on…no matter the logic or rationale. You must fight with everything in you to be single-minded, looking only in the direction of your freedom. Because this woman looked in the direction of the destruction, she suffered the same fate as those who were still in the place she was delivered from moments earlier.

This lesson perfectly illustrated how a person can be physically delivered from a situation, but their mind is not yet free.

Let this lesson serve as a reminder to you that your freedom is tied to the direction of your focus. Do not look in a direction where you do not want to go. Do not risk your future by focusing on your past.

Closing Point:

Notice the language in Genesis 19:26. Lot’s “wife looked back behind him.” This tells us the order in which they escaped to the city of Zoar. Lot was in the position of the rearguard. This means that Lot was standing between his family and the destruction of Sodom. The role of the rearguard is to protect the one who he’s assigned to so that if anything comes their way, he’s the one to get hit…not his protectee. But his wife chose to get out of position and away from his protection. In that moment, her husband was preventing her from seeing the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah. So she positioned herself to see behind him. She had to put her eyes on what she was hearing with her ears. In her mind, she had to see what was going on. Her desire to look back cost her her life. It cost her husband his wife. And it cost her daughters the blessing of having their mom in their lives. The cost of looking back is way more than it seems in the moment of the pressure to backward focus.

FREEDOM VS CONTROL

And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat: 17 But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die.

Gen. 2:16-17

I’ve heard people say that you’re not free to do what you want, you are free to do what you must. I don’t agree with that statement. Freedom is only freedom if you can do the opposite of what is desired by another. That would be like telling a slave that you are free to pick cotton, chop wood and bale hay, but not what you want to do. That is not freedom, not because of the type of work it is, but because it removes the volition of the slave. Control is when you restrict someone from being able to disobey you. When God told the man to freely eat from all the trees except the one in the midst of the garden, He did not take away man’s ability to disobey Him. God told him what would happen when he eats from the tree He told him not to eat from. In this incident, you see what freedom looks like. You are not free unless you have the ability to disobey a stated order.

Look at the language of the 10 commandments. God never said, You can’t do…He stated…you shall not or you shall.

Ultimately, life is about managing freedom. The tool by which freedom must be managed is truth. This is because without truth there is no freedom. You see, the purpose of a lie is to remove or limit a person’s choice to the one selected for him. The purpose of a lie is to take truth off the table so that it won’t be an option in the mind of the person lied to. God will recommend or tell you which option to choose, but He will not make the choice for you. Neither will He take the opposite choice off the table so that you can only select the one He promotes. Remember, He said I set before you life and death, therefore choose life. He didn’t say I set before you life, but the devil set before you death. He claimed responsibility for setting them both before us.

Therefore, truth must be what your heart is set on more than anything else. Without truth, your freedom is at stake. And the opposite of freedom is slavery or control. Truth delivers you from all other masters. Jesus called Himself, the way, the truth and the life. What does this have to do with this lesson? You don’t experience life solely through desire. There is a way or path to all things. On that path called Jesus, you will find truth which takes you into life. Those 3 elements are all intertwined into one thing and found in the person of Jesus the Christ.

What about bad outcomes? God is not interested in fixing outcomes directly. He is interested in man obeying Him by choosing life and as a consequence man’s outcomes will naturally change. The problem is not death, it’s man’s choice of death that is concerning. It’s no different than the woman who aborts a baby once she already had unprotected sex with a man that she did not want to have a child with. The problem was not the pregnancy. The problem was the decision she made to have sex with the man who she did not want to father her child. You see man is trying to control the consequences of his actions instead of his actions that led to those consequences.

So what is freedom then? You are free when you accept responsibility for the outcomes in your life because you have taken responsibility for your own behaviors that led to them. Freedom means that noone is responsible for your life, but you, because you are not under the control of any other. Freedom ultimately means that you do things because you want to do them, not because you must. So you see, you are free to do what you want to do. Just please understand that there are results that come with those decisions as well.